So Mr. X and I are officially broken up. No drama really he got a job offer overseas and I can’t go with him – It’s in one of those burkha wearing countries. Both of us are a little upset about it but it was a huge opportunity for him. We are going to stay in touch and if we are both still single when he gets back we will pick up again. I am even renting his house from him since I had essentially moved in anyway. We thought about trying to make a go of a long distance relationship but both of us have been around the block and realize how seldom those work.